How does Buddhism transform us – Day 1

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We will try to follow the tradition now. We do some pray before the teachings, and then we do teaching. And we do some dedication prayers at the end. So maybe we do that. A short one.
Because in Buddhism it is said that whatever practice or

Dharma activities you do, three things are very important.
Important in the beginning, starting with good motivation. And important in the middle, where you concentrate. And then important at the end, where you make some dedications. So that's why all the, whether you do meditation, teaching, or long sadhana, all they have these three, something prayers in the beginning, and then some dedication prayers at the end.
So we will also do that here.

If you have Shakyamuni Buddha spread in front of you, is it?
No? Then what we have is, you have this one, is it?
Teaching session, okay.
So, of course many of you are old, I don't need to say, but also some of our volunteers, they are new, yeah? So we read in Tibetan, and then later in English, yeah? And when you read in Tibetan, if it is words, it's easy, you just follow two, two, two, and then one. So, for example, orgyen yülgi nubjang tsam so there will be seven words, you follow two, two, two, and then stop at the end, so it's the same for the verse.
And there are some different melodies for the different practice
but now here you can just follow there.
And this is called Seven Line Prayers.
It's a prayer to the Padmasambhava, who is one of the emanations of Buddha, and one who brought Buddhism into Tibet. So we start with praying.
hung orgyen yülgi nupjang tsam
pema gesar dongpo la yatsen chokgi ngödrup nyé pema jungné shesu drak khordu khandro mangpö kor khyé kyi jesu dak drup kyi jingyi lapchir sheksu söl guru pema siddhi hung Do you also do the English? Okay.
HŪM In the northwest of the country of Uḍḍiyāna, born on the pistil of a lotus,
endowed with the most marvelous attainment, renowned as the Lotus-born, surrounded by a retinue of many ḍākinis, following you, I will reach accomplishment, please come forth to bestow your blessing. GURU PADMA SIDDHI HŪM
So again, next verse is also a supplication, prayers.

lochö su drowar jingyi laptu söl
chölam du drowar jingyi laptu söl lam trülpa selwar jingyi laptu söl trülpa yeshé su charwar jingyi laptu söl
Grant your blessings so that my mind may follow the Dharma.
Grant your blessings so that my Dharma practice may become the path. Grant your blessings so that the path may clarify my confusion. Grant your blessings so that confusion may dawn as wisdom.
So, we will skip some of them.
And page number fourteen.
okmin chökyi yingkyi phodrang né
düsum sangyé kün gyi ngowo nyi rangsem chöku ngönsum tönzé pa tsawai lamai shapla sölwa dep In the dharmadhātu palace of Akaniṣṭha, I suplicate at the feet of the root guru, the essence of all the Buddhas of the three times, who directly shows my mind as Dharmakāya.
Next.
chaktsal wadang chöching shakpa dang jesu yirang külshing sölwa yi gewa chung sé dak gi chisak pa thamché dak gi jangchup chir ngo o We prostrate, make offerings, and apologize, rejoice, request and beseach you earnestly. May whatever little goodness we have gathered, all be dedicated to enlightenment.
Yes, so now you can...
So, I don't know, if you know how to do the Mudra of Mandala offering, you can do. Otherwise, just...
sashi pöchü juk shing metok tram
rirap lingshi nyidé gyenpa di sangyé shingdu mikté phülwa yi drokün namdak shingdu chöpar shok
the sun. Imagining this as a buddha realm,
I offer this so that all beings may enjoy that pure realm.
So, those who are new,
since we value our dharma a lot, and before you get teaching, we request the teacher to turn the wheel of dharma. And for that, it's very important to accumulate some merit so the communication between teachers and students happens properly. And that's why we do this mandala offering. And this mudra, the gesture, you see the kind of like five peaks, mountains, is a symbol of universe, according to Buddhist cosmology. So here is what we call the Mount Meru in the middle, and these four are four continents. So when you offer, you're offering the whole universe, of course mentally, to the Buddhas and bodhisattvas and the teachers in order to turn the wheel of dharma. So it's a sense, it's a kind of valuing the dharma, and appreciating the teaching.
So now the next...

semchen namki sampa dang
loyi jedrak jita war chechung tünmong tekpa yi chökyi khorlo kordu söl In accordance with the activity and the diverse aspiration of sentient beings, I ask you to turn the wheel of Dharma of the greater, lesser or conventional vehicles.
Okay, so that's...

Okay, so.

My English is not that fluent, but I hope, you know, we can communicate.
So you have to listen with a little bit, how to say, with a tune, so to speak.
So for the few days, coming days, we will be doing this teaching session,

.. I thought that it's good to study some proper texts,
so that later you can study by yourself and more enhance your understanding and deepen your experience and practice of dharma by yourself. And also the text is already translated in English. And this is the essence of other texts called Bodhicaryāvatāra, written by Indian Master Śāntideva. And all the Buddhists in the monastery, when you study Buddhist texts, we start with this Bodhicaryāvatāra. But since that text is a detailed one, and this is kind of like an essence of that text, and also it's good for people who are interested in practicing Buddhism, so it's more like practical instructions. So I hope this might be a little bit helpful.
But I think most of you are old Buddhists, already practicing for a long time, know a lot.
And also some of you probably who are volunteering here are new, yeah? New to Buddhists. How many of you are like new?
Okay.

So I will try to balance, but...

But I think today I will just say a few...
what do you say, key points or things that I felt important to know as a Buddhist and a Dharma practitioner, so it might be helpful.
Then maybe I will start text from tomorrow.

Those who don't know me, I was born in Nepal, originally Tibetan ethnic,
and I became a monk in the Ka-Nying Shedrub Ling Monastery that belongs to Chökyi Nyima Rinpoche, when I was nine years old. And I studied there, grew up there, and now I'm serving as a teacher in the monastery. So this time I got some time to travel, and so I came to Denmark here for the short teachings.
So,

okay, maybe today I will say a few things about
once you become a Buddhist, what are your identities, or the responsibilities, or your, how to say, obligations, so to speak.
I think first of all, Buddhism,

we can say it's a combination of philosophy, religious,
and psychology, so in terms of the knowledge, we can say that actually Buddhism is quite rich. A lot of different schools, different philosophy schools, different lineages, and different techniques of practice and so forth.
I think generally speaking why we need this spiritual path.

Somehow, when we say I, when we say I'm suffering, or I'm being happy,
whether we like it or not, we have this I within us, the moment we were born, and sometimes our I is not that obvious, and sometimes our I is very obvious, I'm this, I'm that. Once you have I, and then it's very innate feeling, that wanting to be free from suffering, and to longing for the happiness is almost like our innate qualities.
And according to Buddhism,

in Uttaratantra-Śāstra text, Maitreya said that all the sentient beings
have this potential, or what we call the Buddha nature, or the potential to be enlightened. And how we know is that the first among the several signs that wanting to be free from suffering is the one of them. So it's not only even human beings, all the other beings also have that. It's not that human beings was striving for happiness, wanting to be free, even the ants and the small bugs, everyone is, the moment they're born until they die, they're doing something for that. So this is the clear sign that as long as you have a mind, you have a Buddha nature. You have the potential to become free, or become enlightened.
So now when you study Buddhism, and when we say I'm practicing Buddhism,
to make it very easy, actually there's only two things that you're doing it. The first thing is you trying to discover, or you try to recognize the potential that you have.
This is what we do.
For example, when you practice Buddhist, we study, the first very beginning practice is called understanding the nature of human being. Generally, especially we call it precious human life.
Who am I?

And what kind of potentials that I have?

Many times we don't know that.
And we kind of waste this potential because of not knowing. And this is what we call the ignorant.
So when you study, and when you practiced,
the first thing is understanding that you're born as a human being. That's amazing. And then you're still alive. Being alive twenty-four hours is amazing. And then you have all this intake, senses, your mind is kind of working well. When you look at how many causes and conditions is needed for that kind of potential, it's very, very rare. And this is what we call the understanding or practicing on the precious human life. This is the first step towards the understanding that you have tremendous potential inside of you and this is just the beginning.
And according to Buddhists, it is believed that,

in the process of evolution, generally speaking,
the precious human life is one of the most, how to say, the greatest fruit of the tree of our evolution.
But unfortunately, because of many reasons, we don't recognize that potential.
Or sometimes we do recognize, but then we forget them easily. And because of that, we get confused in life.
And for example, we talk about the meaning of life, right?
From the Buddhist point of view, there's no meaning for the life. It is you who make the meaning of your own life through your karma or through your action. So if you try to find some sort of one answer, what it is, it's not going to happen because there's no answer for that, one life, one way. But if you understand, recognize your own potential and know how to use and how to develop that potential, then that creates the meaning of your life.
So as long as you don't know your potential
and don't know how to develop that potential fully, thoroughly, then life always is a little bit confusing.
And once you understand the potential of your mind, or let's say potential of yourself,
and then you know way, how to develop that potential and where you should go, and this becomes the meaning of our life.
So when you study Buddhism, when you practice Buddhism,
actually the only two things that we are doing, the first is recognizing that potential and second thing is developing that potential with the proper structure.
Sometimes we feel that I didn't understand the

potential, but we don't have proper structure.
So this so-called whole path of Dharma is a full proper structure telling us how to develop that potential in the fully level. So from the Buddhist point of view, we have a tremendous potential. It doesn't really matter your gender or what kind of background or culture you have. We are all the same potential. It is just a matter of a little bit of accumulating the karma and connecting them together. Small, small things. That's why we do the prostations before the practice to accumulate the merit. That's why we do the offerings. We do the prayers. So that all this comes together. It's like cooking a nice food. You have to accumulate small, small things.
So if you look at the word,
so-called Buddha, which is a Sanskrit word, and it is translated in English as enlightenment, but the literal translation will be awakened one.
So when you recognize your own potential and then you develop in the fully level,
thoroughly, and that means you are completely awakened. That is what it means. Many times we are kind of sleeping, meaning not knowing that potential. And sometimes we know that potential, but we don't know the process to develop it, so we are stuck in a certain level, because of ups and downs. So Buddha is the one who is completely awakening from the sleep of ignorance and who has completely developed that potential in the full level. That is called Buddha. In Tibetan, we use the word sangyé. That's a two word. It's more like meaningly translated.
So sang literally means purification.
Buddha has purified all kinds of negativities, illusions, and the suffering and the cause of suffering, and that's why we call sang.
And the next word is called gyé.
It means to develop in the full, to develop, to enhance. So the one who has complete sort of developed of its potential, it means realisation. The wisdom of the realisation is completely intact there. And when you put these two things together, it becomes a sangyé, Buddha. It means someone who has completely purified all kinds of illusions and who has developed fully all kinds of wisdom. And this is what we call the Buddha.
So this is, as a Buddhist practitioner, this is our goal.
So Buddha is not a name or person, but it's more a title when you practice. So we all have a potential of Buddha, and we all can become exactly same as a Buddha. So this is, I think, a little bit extraordinary sort of ideas of Buddhism.
It's not like you are always second. You can become exactly like a Buddha.

Now, when we talk about the path, the process,

it's quite easy.

When we call Buddhism, I'm a Buddhist.
I'm a Buddhist. In English we call Buddhist, but in Tibetan we call nang pa. It literally means the insiders. Insiders. That means we believe that there's an external world, there's an internal world.
And when you say I, there's our physical I, and there's our mental I.
We have body and mind, so to speak.
But,
ultimately, whether we talk about happiness or whether we talk about suffering, it always comes down to our mind. So everything is kind of created from the mind. So that's why all the problems actually comes down to the mind. Inside. And all the solutions also can be found inside of us. If you try to look happiness outside, you can get some pleasure here and there, but it will always become endless.
So that's why we call insiders, because
whether it is problem, suffering, or whether it is happiness and solutions, you always try to find it from the inside. And this is the right way to do it. Because many times we want happiness, but we don't look at the wrong place.
And this happens a lot, because of our ignorance.
And that's why Buddha was trying to say that longing for the happiness is your right. You have to do that. But the problem is you have to know where to look at.
Many times you are looking at the wrong place, and then you are complaining.

It's like you want to go to the north,
but then you are walking towards the opposite directions. For example, attachment and desires are not really cause of suffering, not happiness. But we still strongly believe that they bring us more happiness.
For example, contentment, and let's say being more compassionate, are cause of happiness.
But we kind of try to... we have this strongly subconscious mind that thinks, no, no, these are not the cause of happiness.
And for example, the more you have ego, the more you have self-cherishing mind,
that we feel it's more safe or it brings you more happiness. But in reality, it doesn't really work that way. The more ego you have, the more self-cherishing mind you have, it will trigger more anger, aversions, jealousy, and then all these are very much disturbing emotions. So the moment those emotions you have, you are not happy because internally disturbed.
So if you look at, for example, the Four Noble Truths, you know,
suffering and cause of suffering, happiness and cause of happiness,
what Buddha wants and what we want is the same.
But what we do is quite different. That's the problem. The path is different. The goal is the same.
And because of that ignorance, we spend too much time and energy towards something
that is not really necessary or helping to recognize our potential or develop our potential, rather than it kind of sort of suppresses that qualities.
So.

we call the path, the process.
It's quite easy. Buddha said in four lines.
In our mind, there is a negative part of our mind.
There is an obscuration part of our mind. And there is a quality part of mind. There is a positive part of our mind. You just do what you do is reduce negative aspects of your mind and increase the positive aspects of your mind. That's it. It's quite easy. Just increase as much as you can the quality aspects of your mind means, compassion, altruism or softness and the negative aspects of our mind, which is strong ego, self cherishing mind, too much I and I. And these are not something that you need to ask anyone else or anyone else to tell you because the moment it comes, you will know that. It's quite easy. So first thing is recognizing what is negative, what is the positive aspects of our mind. And second thing is really not just Buddha said it. You have to investigate yourself and see that what happens when you have compassion and what happens when you have anger. Yeah, which is more helpful for yourself, for others. And what happens when you completely you do something that is influenced by compassion or what happens when you do something, it is completely influenced by ego and self nourishing mind. You will see very clearly that which one you wanted to choose.
And the good thing is again, fortunately or unfortunately, we want to be happy.
So you will never choose the wrong because as if you wanted suffering, then maybe you will choose the negative part of our mind, disturbing part of our mind, but it's not like that. It doesn't really matter how person looks anger or brutal, but inside of, you know, the basic of our mind is always that we wanted to be good, happy. This is the natural state of our mind. The obscurations are very advantageous, they are not natural state of our mind.
So actually, whatever we do, let's say coming to the teaching,
listening this teaching, doing prostations, prayer, directly or indirectly, what we are doing is this two thing. Whether you're trying to enhance the quality of your mind or trying to reduce the negativity aspects of our mind. That's it.
And Buddha said in these four lines that increase your positive aspects of mind,
decrease your negative aspects of mind, and just by doing that, tame our mind, that is the essence of my teaching. So that's in Dharmapada, four lines, where he gives all the Dharma into four lines.
So maybe in easy word you can say that when I say I'm a Buddhist or I'm practicing Dharma,
it's just that we want happiness, we don't want suffering. That's a very common ground. And unfortunately, sometimes even though we want suffering, but we are almost, we don't want suffering, we want happiness, but we are almost kind of going towards the suffering. Of course we didn't do it intentionally, but because we are not awakened, we are sleeping. So you just have to recognize that, what brings happiness and what brings suffering, and then just follow that. That's it. And to see how you can develop the potential that you have.
Then of course, in order to recognize your potential, in order to develop,
you have to go through certain process. So for example, in Buddhism we say that studying, contemplation, and the meditation. So these are like a process. Because without studying, without contemplation, and without meditation,
you might have some ideas, but you won't have this proper path, process.

So now the question is, why we don't recognize it, nature of ourselves?
So in a way you can say studying Buddhism is studying oneself. So it's very obvious.
So this, it is said that there are three reasons why we don't recognize that.
Let's say three obscurations. In the text called Mahamudra Aspiration, the Karmapa Rangjung Dorje, he said that first one is lack of knowledge, and lack of wisdom. We have this so-called not knowing what is the reality of phenomena.
This is one reason.

Obscurations of not knowing how things are, rather than believing in how things appear to us.
Yeah? Sometimes we also call the two truths, ground.
So we understand things, phenomena around us, according to how they appear to us,
not what they really are ultimately. So this is the biggest mistakes or problems starts from there. And this is what we call the ma rigpa, not knowing or ignorence. Is it ignorence? Yeah, ignorence.
Unfortunately, this unknowing is not just unknowing,
but it plays a big role to the knowing. So it almost blocks that wisdom. That's why we talk a lot about the purification, yeah? So we have to purify this state of unknowing mind.
But the good news is that this not knowing, ma rigpa,
actually is not the natural state of our mind. It's we call advantageous obscurations. If it is natural state of mind, then actually we cannot do much, yeah? You have to live it with it. But no, the natural state of our mind is this potential, the Buddha nature, and this so-called ma rigpa is advantageous obscurations.
Now I'm going a little bit into the philosophy aspects,
or maybe a little bit these words, yeah? So we have two kind of, we call the obscurations or defiles, that kind of obscure to this understanding what is natural state of things, yeah? One is called the obscurations of emotions, such as anger, jealousy, you know, this emotionally reacting. This is little bit easy to understand, we feel that. Another one is called the cognitive obscurations. We don't know much about it. It means that very subtle things such as, oh, that's a table, oh, that is a flower, you know, just having the duality, I, they, me, subject, object, good, bad, like this, don't like this, yeah? Very subtle kind of duality. And this is what we call the cognitive obscurations.
For example,

It starts with the cognitive obscurations, and then it transforms into the
emotional obscurations, and then it will turn into the action and the result, yeah? So then you have this subtle mind, it comes little bit emotional mind, it turns into the action and the result. So this is always how our mind happens. Subconscious mind, conscious mind, action and result. Everything is in this whole process, whether you are happy, sad, good, bad, it's just the cycle of this process. For example, when I look at this thing, yeah,
let's say I, when I look at this, this thing, phenomena.
So what my reaction would be, oh, that's a water, yeah? Quite simple. But we, since our mind works in quite a gross level, our appearances, concepts, but if you look at the process of mind, it actually works much, much faster than what we actually know. It's like computer, right? When you press the keyboard A, and then letter A will appear on the screen. It seems like almost same time, yeah? But if you really look it in the very, this mini second times, so many things already happen. When you press, it goes to the memory and there and the motherboard, and when you see the letter A on the screen, it actually went through a lot of process. Our mind also functions exactly the same way. So what we,
we call that, for example, direct perception.
That means my eye is designed to see the forms and colors, right? That's the function of my eye. And I have eye consciousness. And so we have this so-called five sense consciousness, eye consciousness, ear and so forth, that we experience mostly our physical world, or called good taste, bad taste. And then we call the sixth mind. That means after all these fifth mind's action, and then you make the picture of what it is, story. And that is what we call the mental, I don't know what is in English, sixth mental cognition or something like that.
So that means that when my eye, my, of course, there are some conditions, yeah?
So there has to be form, there has to be my eye organs and there has to be some light and everything. When it comes together, I will see something. But even though I feel like actually I saw a water through my eye conscious eye, yeah, that's not true. Because your eye will never see the water. Because he will just see something is there and he will never judge whether it is water or glass or not. He won't make any judgment. So my eye consciousness will see some kind of form and he will send a message to my mental cognition, so to speak. I'm not sure what is the exact translation of that. We call it "yi kyi nampar shepa". And then he will make a judgment, what is your experience? It comes much later. But it happens so quick that it seems like, oh, I saw it. Right?
Now,
our direct perceptions are not very big problem because it happens and it goes. So they are not very strong. But it's our conceptual mind who makes the story. This is the big problem.
All the hopes, fears, agendas are made by our mental mind, the mental cognition.

So, for example, when I see this,

then immediately,

That also come to my room this morning, I don't know, small bat.
First I thought it was a butterfly, then I realized it was a bat, small bat.
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We will try to follow the tradition now. We do some pray before the teachings, and then we do teaching. And we do some dedication prayers at the end. So maybe we do that. A short one.
Because in Buddhism it is said that whatever practice or

Dharma activities you do, three things are very important.
Important in the beginning, starting with good motivation. And important in the middle, where you concentrate. And then important at the end, where you make some dedications. So that's why all the, whether you do meditation, teaching, or long sadhana, all they have these three, something prayers in the beginning, and then some dedication prayers at the end.
So we will also do that here.

If you have Shakyamuni Buddha spread in front of you, is it?
No? Then what we have is, you have this one, is it?
Teaching session, okay.
So, of course many of you are old, I don't need to say, but also some of our volunteers, they are new, yeah? So we read in Tibetan, and then later in English, yeah? And when you read in Tibetan, if it is words, it's easy, you just follow two, two, two, and then one. So, for example, orgyen yülgi nubjang tsam so there will be seven words, you follow two, two, two, and then stop at the end, so it's the same for the verse.
And there are some different melodies for the different practice
but now here you can just follow there.
And this is called Seven Line Prayers.
It's a prayer to the Padmasambhava, who is one of the emanations of Buddha, and one who brought Buddhism into Tibet. So we start with praying.
hung orgyen yülgi nupjang tsam
pema gesar dongpo la yatsen chokgi ngödrup nyé pema jungné shesu drak khordu khandro mangpö kor khyé kyi jesu dak drup kyi jingyi lapchir sheksu söl guru pema siddhi hung Do you also do the English? Okay.
HŪM In the northwest of the country of Uḍḍiyāna, born on the pistil of a lotus,
endowed with the most marvelous attainment, renowned as the Lotus-born, surrounded by a retinue of many ḍākinis, following you, I will reach accomplishment, please come forth to bestow your blessing. GURU PADMA SIDDHI HŪM
So again, next verse is also a supplication, prayers.

lochö su drowar jingyi laptu söl
chölam du drowar jingyi laptu söl lam trülpa selwar jingyi laptu söl trülpa yeshé su charwar jingyi laptu söl
Grant your blessings so that my mind may follow the Dharma.
Grant your blessings so that my Dharma practice may become the path. Grant your blessings so that the path may clarify my confusion. Grant your blessings so that confusion may dawn as wisdom.
So, we will skip some of them.
And page number fourteen.
okmin chökyi yingkyi phodrang né
düsum sangyé kün gyi ngowo nyi rangsem chöku ngönsum tönzé pa tsawai lamai shapla sölwa dep In the dharmadhātu palace of Akaniṣṭha, I suplicate at the feet of the root guru, the essence of all the Buddhas of the three times, who directly shows my mind as Dharmakāya.
Next.
chaktsal wadang chöching shakpa dang jesu yirang külshing sölwa yi gewa chung sé dak gi chisak pa thamché dak gi jangchup chir ngo o We prostrate, make offerings, and apologize, rejoice, request and beseach you earnestly. May whatever little goodness we have gathered, all be dedicated to enlightenment.
Yes, so now you can...
So, I don't know, if you know how to do the Mudra of Mandala offering, you can do. Otherwise, just...
sashi pöchü juk shing metok tram
rirap lingshi nyidé gyenpa di sangyé shingdu mikté phülwa yi drokün namdak shingdu chöpar shok
the sun. Imagining this as a buddha realm,
I offer this so that all beings may enjoy that pure realm.
So, those who are new,
since we value our dharma a lot, and before you get teaching, we request the teacher to turn the wheel of dharma. And for that, it's very important to accumulate some merit so the communication between teachers and students happens properly. And that's why we do this mandala offering. And this mudra, the gesture, you see the kind of like five peaks, mountains, is a symbol of universe, according to Buddhist cosmology. So here is what we call the Mount Meru in the middle, and these four are four continents. So when you offer, you're offering the whole universe, of course mentally, to the Buddhas and bodhisattvas and the teachers in order to turn the wheel of dharma. So it's a sense, it's a kind of valuing the dharma, and appreciating the teaching.
So now the next...

semchen namki sampa dang
loyi jedrak jita war chechung tünmong tekpa yi chökyi khorlo kordu söl In accordance with the activity and the diverse aspiration of sentient beings, I ask you to turn the wheel of Dharma of the greater, lesser or conventional vehicles.
Okay, so that's...

Okay, so.

My English is not that fluent, but I hope, you know, we can communicate.
So you have to listen with a little bit, how to say, with a tune, so to speak.
So for the few days, coming days, we will be doing this teaching session,

.. I thought that it's good to study some proper texts,
so that later you can study by yourself and more enhance your understanding and deepen your experience and practice of dharma by yourself. And also the text is already translated in English. And this is the essence of other texts called Bodhicaryāvatāra, written by Indian Master Śāntideva. And all the Buddhists in the monastery, when you study Buddhist texts, we start with this Bodhicaryāvatāra. But since that text is a detailed one, and this is kind of like an essence of that text, and also it's good for people who are interested in practicing Buddhism, so it's more like practical instructions. So I hope this might be a little bit helpful.
But I think most of you are old Buddhists, already practicing for a long time, know a lot.
And also some of you probably who are volunteering here are new, yeah? New to Buddhists. How many of you are like new?
Okay.

So I will try to balance, but...

But I think today I will just say a few...
what do you say, key points or things that I felt important to know as a Buddhist and a Dharma practitioner, so it might be helpful.
Then maybe I will start text from tomorrow.

Those who don't know me, I was born in Nepal, originally Tibetan ethnic,
and I became a monk in the Ka-Nying Shedrub Ling Monastery that belongs to Chökyi Nyima Rinpoche, when I was nine years old. And I studied there, grew up there, and now I'm serving as a teacher in the monastery. So this time I got some time to travel, and so I came to Denmark here for the short teachings.
So,

okay, maybe today I will say a few things about
once you become a Buddhist, what are your identities, or the responsibilities, or your, how to say, obligations, so to speak.
I think first of all, Buddhism,

we can say it's a combination of philosophy, religious,
and psychology, so in terms of the knowledge, we can say that actually Buddhism is quite rich. A lot of different schools, different philosophy schools, different lineages, and different techniques of practice and so forth.
I think generally speaking why we need this spiritual path.

Somehow, when we say I, when we say I'm suffering, or I'm being happy,
whether we like it or not, we have this I within us, the moment we were born, and sometimes our I is not that obvious, and sometimes our I is very obvious, I'm this, I'm that. Once you have I, and then it's very innate feeling, that wanting to be free from suffering, and to longing for the happiness is almost like our innate qualities.
And according to Buddhism,

in Uttaratantra-Śāstra text, Maitreya said that all the sentient beings
have this potential, or what we call the Buddha nature, or the potential to be enlightened. And how we know is that the first among the several signs that wanting to be free from suffering is the one of them. So it's not only even human beings, all the other beings also have that. It's not that human beings was striving for happiness, wanting to be free, even the ants and the small bugs, everyone is, the moment they're born until they die, they're doing something for that. So this is the clear sign that as long as you have a mind, you have a Buddha nature. You have the potential to become free, or become enlightened.
So now when you study Buddhism, and when we say I'm practicing Buddhism,
to make it very easy, actually there's only two things that you're doing it. The first thing is you trying to discover, or you try to recognize the potential that you have.
This is what we do.
For example, when you practice Buddhist, we study, the first very beginning practice is called understanding the nature of human being. Generally, especially we call it precious human life.
Who am I?

And what kind of potentials that I have?

Many times we don't know that.
And we kind of waste this potential because of not knowing. And this is what we call the ignorant.
So when you study, and when you practiced,
the first thing is understanding that you're born as a human being. That's amazing. And then you're still alive. Being alive twenty-four hours is amazing. And then you have all this intake, senses, your mind is kind of working well. When you look at how many causes and conditions is needed for that kind of potential, it's very, very rare. And this is what we call the understanding or practicing on the precious human life. This is the first step towards the understanding that you have tremendous potential inside of you and this is just the beginning.
And according to Buddhists, it is believed that,

in the process of evolution, generally speaking,
the precious human life is one of the most, how to say, the greatest fruit of the tree of our evolution.
But unfortunately, because of many reasons, we don't recognize that potential.
Or sometimes we do recognize, but then we forget them easily. And because of that, we get confused in life.
And for example, we talk about the meaning of life, right?
From the Buddhist point of view, there's no meaning for the life. It is you who make the meaning of your own life through your karma or through your action. So if you try to find some sort of one answer, what it is, it's not going to happen because there's no answer for that, one life, one way. But if you understand, recognize your own potential and know how to use and how to develop that potential, then that creates the meaning of your life.
So as long as you don't know your potential
and don't know how to develop that potential fully, thoroughly, then life always is a little bit confusing.
And once you understand the potential of your mind, or let's say potential of yourself,
and then you know way, how to develop that potential and where you should go, and this becomes the meaning of our life.
So when you study Buddhism, when you practice Buddhism,
actually the only two things that we are doing, the first is recognizing that potential and second thing is developing that potential with the proper structure.
Sometimes we feel that I didn't understand the

potential, but we don't have proper structure.
So this so-called whole path of Dharma is a full proper structure telling us how to develop that potential in the fully level. So from the Buddhist point of view, we have a tremendous potential. It doesn't really matter your gender or what kind of background or culture you have. We are all the same potential. It is just a matter of a little bit of accumulating the karma and connecting them together. Small, small things. That's why we do the prostations before the practice to accumulate the merit. That's why we do the offerings. We do the prayers. So that all this comes together. It's like cooking a nice food. You have to accumulate small, small things.
So if you look at the word,
so-called Buddha, which is a Sanskrit word, and it is translated in English as enlightenment, but the literal translation will be awakened one.
So when you recognize your own potential and then you develop in the fully level,
thoroughly, and that means you are completely awakened. That is what it means. Many times we are kind of sleeping, meaning not knowing that potential. And sometimes we know that potential, but we don't know the process to develop it, so we are stuck in a certain level, because of ups and downs. So Buddha is the one who is completely awakening from the sleep of ignorance and who has completely developed that potential in the full level. That is called Buddha. In Tibetan, we use the word sangyé. That's a two word. It's more like meaningly translated.
So sang literally means purification.
Buddha has purified all kinds of negativities, illusions, and the suffering and the cause of suffering, and that's why we call sang.
And the next word is called gyé.
It means to develop in the full, to develop, to enhance. So the one who has complete sort of developed of its potential, it means realisation. The wisdom of the realisation is completely intact there. And when you put these two things together, it becomes a sangyé, Buddha. It means someone who has completely purified all kinds of illusions and who has developed fully all kinds of wisdom. And this is what we call the Buddha.
So this is, as a Buddhist practitioner, this is our goal.
So Buddha is not a name or person, but it's more a title when you practice. So we all have a potential of Buddha, and we all can become exactly same as a Buddha. So this is, I think, a little bit extraordinary sort of ideas of Buddhism.
It's not like you are always second. You can become exactly like a Buddha.

Now, when we talk about the path, the process,

it's quite easy.

When we call Buddhism, I'm a Buddhist.
I'm a Buddhist. In English we call Buddhist, but in Tibetan we call nang pa. It literally means the insiders. Insiders. That means we believe that there's an external world, there's an internal world.
And when you say I, there's our physical I, and there's our mental I.
We have body and mind, so to speak.
But,
ultimately, whether we talk about happiness or whether we talk about suffering, it always comes down to our mind. So everything is kind of created from the mind. So that's why all the problems actually comes down to the mind. Inside. And all the solutions also can be found inside of us. If you try to look happiness outside, you can get some pleasure here and there, but it will always become endless.
So that's why we call insiders, because
whether it is problem, suffering, or whether it is happiness and solutions, you always try to find it from the inside. And this is the right way to do it. Because many times we want happiness, but we don't look at the wrong place.
And this happens a lot, because of our ignorance.
And that's why Buddha was trying to say that longing for the happiness is your right. You have to do that. But the problem is you have to know where to look at.
Many times you are looking at the wrong place, and then you are complaining.

It's like you want to go to the north,
but then you are walking towards the opposite directions. For example, attachment and desires are not really cause of suffering, not happiness. But we still strongly believe that they bring us more happiness.
For example, contentment, and let's say being more compassionate, are cause of happiness.
But we kind of try to... we have this strongly subconscious mind that thinks, no, no, these are not the cause of happiness.
And for example, the more you have ego, the more you have self-cherishing mind,
that we feel it's more safe or it brings you more happiness. But in reality, it doesn't really work that way. The more ego you have, the more self-cherishing mind you have, it will trigger more anger, aversions, jealousy, and then all these are very much disturbing emotions. So the moment those emotions you have, you are not happy because internally disturbed.
So if you look at, for example, the Four Noble Truths, you know,
suffering and cause of suffering, happiness and cause of happiness,
what Buddha wants and what we want is the same.
But what we do is quite different. That's the problem. The path is different. The goal is the same.
And because of that ignorance, we spend too much time and energy towards something
that is not really necessary or helping to recognize our potential or develop our potential, rather than it kind of sort of suppresses that qualities.
So.

we call the path, the process.
It's quite easy. Buddha said in four lines.
In our mind, there is a negative part of our mind.
There is an obscuration part of our mind. And there is a quality part of mind. There is a positive part of our mind. You just do what you do is reduce negative aspects of your mind and increase the positive aspects of your mind. That's it. It's quite easy. Just increase as much as you can the quality aspects of your mind means, compassion, altruism or softness and the negative aspects of our mind, which is strong ego, self cherishing mind, too much I and I. And these are not something that you need to ask anyone else or anyone else to tell you because the moment it comes, you will know that. It's quite easy. So first thing is recognizing what is negative, what is the positive aspects of our mind. And second thing is really not just Buddha said it. You have to investigate yourself and see that what happens when you have compassion and what happens when you have anger. Yeah, which is more helpful for yourself, for others. And what happens when you completely you do something that is influenced by compassion or what happens when you do something, it is completely influenced by ego and self nourishing mind. You will see very clearly that which one you wanted to choose.
And the good thing is again, fortunately or unfortunately, we want to be happy.
So you will never choose the wrong because as if you wanted suffering, then maybe you will choose the negative part of our mind, disturbing part of our mind, but it's not like that. It doesn't really matter how person looks anger or brutal, but inside of, you know, the basic of our mind is always that we wanted to be good, happy. This is the natural state of our mind. The obscurations are very advantageous, they are not natural state of our mind.
So actually, whatever we do, let's say coming to the teaching,
listening this teaching, doing prostations, prayer, directly or indirectly, what we are doing is this two thing. Whether you're trying to enhance the quality of your mind or trying to reduce the negativity aspects of our mind. That's it.
And Buddha said in these four lines that increase your positive aspects of mind,
decrease your negative aspects of mind, and just by doing that, tame our mind, that is the essence of my teaching. So that's in Dharmapada, four lines, where he gives all the Dharma into four lines.
So maybe in easy word you can say that when I say I'm a Buddhist or I'm practicing Dharma,
it's just that we want happiness, we don't want suffering. That's a very common ground. And unfortunately, sometimes even though we want suffering, but we are almost, we don't want suffering, we want happiness, but we are almost kind of going towards the suffering. Of course we didn't do it intentionally, but because we are not awakened, we are sleeping. So you just have to recognize that, what brings happiness and what brings suffering, and then just follow that. That's it. And to see how you can develop the potential that you have.
Then of course, in order to recognize your potential, in order to develop,
you have to go through certain process. So for example, in Buddhism we say that studying, contemplation, and the meditation. So these are like a process. Because without studying, without contemplation, and without meditation,
you might have some ideas, but you won't have this proper path, process.

So now the question is, why we don't recognize it, nature of ourselves?
So in a way you can say studying Buddhism is studying oneself. So it's very obvious.
So this, it is said that there are three reasons why we don't recognize that.
Let's say three obscurations. In the text called Mahamudra Aspiration, the Karmapa Rangjung Dorje, he said that first one is lack of knowledge, and lack of wisdom. We have this so-called not knowing what is the reality of phenomena.
This is one reason.

Obscurations of not knowing how things are, rather than believing in how things appear to us.
Yeah? Sometimes we also call the two truths, ground.
So we understand things, phenomena around us, according to how they appear to us,
not what they really are ultimately. So this is the biggest mistakes or problems starts from there. And this is what we call the ma rigpa, not knowing or ignorence. Is it ignorence? Yeah, ignorence.
Unfortunately, this unknowing is not just unknowing,
but it plays a big role to the knowing. So it almost blocks that wisdom. That's why we talk a lot about the purification, yeah? So we have to purify this state of unknowing mind.
But the good news is that this not knowing, ma rigpa,
actually is not the natural state of our mind. It's we call advantageous obscurations. If it is natural state of mind, then actually we cannot do much, yeah? You have to live it with it. But no, the natural state of our mind is this potential, the Buddha nature, and this so-called ma rigpa is advantageous obscurations.
Now I'm going a little bit into the philosophy aspects,
or maybe a little bit these words, yeah? So we have two kind of, we call the obscurations or defiles, that kind of obscure to this understanding what is natural state of things, yeah? One is called the obscurations of emotions, such as anger, jealousy, you know, this emotionally reacting. This is little bit easy to understand, we feel that. Another one is called the cognitive obscurations. We don't know much about it. It means that very subtle things such as, oh, that's a table, oh, that is a flower, you know, just having the duality, I, they, me, subject, object, good, bad, like this, don't like this, yeah? Very subtle kind of duality. And this is what we call the cognitive obscurations.
For example,

It starts with the cognitive obscurations, and then it transforms into the
emotional obscurations, and then it will turn into the action and the result, yeah? So then you have this subtle mind, it comes little bit emotional mind, it turns into the action and the result. So this is always how our mind happens. Subconscious mind, conscious mind, action and result. Everything is in this whole process, whether you are happy, sad, good, bad, it's just the cycle of this process. For example, when I look at this thing, yeah,
let's say I, when I look at this, this thing, phenomena.
So what my reaction would be, oh, that's a water, yeah? Quite simple. But we, since our mind works in quite a gross level, our appearances, concepts, but if you look at the process of mind, it actually works much, much faster than what we actually know. It's like computer, right? When you press the keyboard A, and then letter A will appear on the screen. It seems like almost same time, yeah? But if you really look it in the very, this mini second times, so many things already happen. When you press, it goes to the memory and there and the motherboard, and when you see the letter A on the screen, it actually went through a lot of process. Our mind also functions exactly the same way. So what we,
we call that, for example, direct perception.
That means my eye is designed to see the forms and colors, right? That's the function of my eye. And I have eye consciousness. And so we have this so-called five sense consciousness, eye consciousness, ear and so forth, that we experience mostly our physical world, or called good taste, bad taste. And then we call the sixth mind. That means after all these fifth mind's action, and then you make the picture of what it is, story. And that is what we call the mental, I don't know what is in English, sixth mental cognition or something like that.
So that means that when my eye, my, of course, there are some conditions, yeah?
So there has to be form, there has to be my eye organs and there has to be some light and everything. When it comes together, I will see something. But even though I feel like actually I saw a water through my eye conscious eye, yeah, that's not true. Because your eye will never see the water. Because he will just see something is there and he will never judge whether it is water or glass or not. He won't make any judgment. So my eye consciousness will see some kind of form and he will send a message to my mental cognition, so to speak. I'm not sure what is the exact translation of that. We call it "yi kyi nampar shepa". And then he will make a judgment, what is your experience? It comes much later. But it happens so quick that it seems like, oh, I saw it. Right?
Now,
our direct perceptions are not very big problem because it happens and it goes. So they are not very strong. But it's our conceptual mind who makes the story. This is the big problem.
All the hopes, fears, agendas are made by our mental mind, the mental cognition.

So, for example, when I see this,

then immediately,

That also come to my room this morning, I don't know, small bat.
First I thought it was a butterfly, then I realized it was a bat, small bat.

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Khenpo Karma Gyurmey emphasizes foundational principles of Buddhist transformation, focusing on the role of motivation, mindfulness, and dedication in daily practice. The teachings explore specific methods to cultivate wisdom and compassion, helping to address and reduce negative emotions. Ethical discipline is highlighted as essential for aligning actions with Dharma principles and fostering mental clarity. Practical instructions on meditation techniques support the theoretical understanding of the teachings. The session encourages participants to integrate these lessons into their lives for sustained inner transformation.

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So the problem is that our direct perception is quite innocent. It doesn't make much story. But our conceptual mind is very difficult because it makes a lot of stories and he creates the pattern. That's the biggest problem.
Which means that after my eye consciousness sees some phenomena,
then immediately my mental consciousness will recognize this, oh, this is water. There's no doubt at all that this is water. Then immediately after, when I see water, I will make two kind, three kind of judgment. Like, dislike and neutral. So whether you like or whether you dislike or whether you neutral, and this will create so called the three kinds of pattern in our mind.
Attachment, anger and ignorant.

So when we talk about this, our negative aspects of mind, we talk about lots of
different kind of disturbing emotions, but it always comes down to this three kind. Attachment, aversion and ignorant. So you can always put in these three kind of cases, whatever kind of negative emotions. So that means each time you have conceptual mind, it is kind of contributing your negative patterns. And this is what we call the emotional... So when I believe that this is water, there, and this is what we call the cognitive obscurations, because it's a duality. And this is completely based on duality. And of course, Am I seeing, am I judging the water according to what it is? Or am I judging the water according to what it appears to me? Now when I say, oh, it's water, I think that this is the reality of this phenomena, but actually it's not. This is my judgment of my perception. So for example, let's say if there's a fish sitting here, and when the fish sees that, he won't see it's water, or maybe the sun. So from the Buddhist point of view, what you see is not what it is, because who you are. Does it make sense? So we believe that if there's a fish, if there's a dog, if there's a, I don't know, god, if you look at this glass of water, we won't see the same thing. We will see completely different things, the same object. So it's not because there's different objects, it's just because we have different receptors. We are different. So we have different habitual patterns, and the ability to understand what object it is. And because of that, in Buddhism, if you change your mind, everything can be changed.
That's why you meditate.

You don't have to go and kill all the enemies.
If you meditate, then all the enemies can be eliminated without killing them.
And you don't have to, how to say?

So through that logic or reason, how everything depends on the persons who perceived it.
Because of that, if you meditate and if you change, and if you reduce the negative aspects of your mind, then everything can be a positive. We can react positively.
So cognitive obscuration will come first, thinking that, oh, this is water.
Of course, we can talk what is this at many different levels. For example, let's say, if you ask me, what is this, oh, it's water, and we drink it, and we make food, and we wash clothes. This is one way to understand it. But if you look at, even from the little bit, our own kind of understanding of what is this, well, it's not really exactly what it appears to our, you can explain theoretically. It's like combinations of oxygens and hydrogens, and actually, there's more space than there's more, it seems. For example, if you say, this is table, and then it seems like very solid. But then if you logically explain it, it says there's more space than the solid. These kind of things, we can understand it. So even, it's so obvious that things are not, really it is not what it appears to us. So there are so many causes, conditions, how we judge what it is and what it is not. So what I'm trying to say was that everything comes down to the mind. It's not really what it is, it's about who is looking at that phenomena and making judgment. So because of that, it is possible that if you change your mind, if you reduce your negative aspects of mind, and then if you increase the quality aspects of your mind, since they are opposite and two opposite things don't stay together.
So for example, if you have compassion to one person, it's difficult to get angry to
this person because the compassion and anger doesn't stay same. Similarly, if you are attached to something, it's difficult to get aggression because our mind, fortunately, doesn't work two opposite things at the same. So when you create this positive pattern of mind in yourself, negative pattern of mind automatically decreases.
So if you understand a little bit of that logic, and then all these Vajrayana aspects
of visualizing and all these make a little bit sense. Otherwise, it might seem like just we are playing a mental game.
So now,

when we say I want to be happy, I'm suffering, we point out, you know, me.
And many times, we don't really think too much about me or I, or sometimes we think too much about me and I. And when you don't think at all, or when you think too much then our mind becomes a little bit imbalance.
And generally speaking, it's very obvious that we have this physical, so-called I, me,
you know, physical happiness, physical suffering, and then we have this mental suffering, mental happiness, I and me.
And since you point, this is me, and it's important to take care, right?
And we do take care of our physical world, physical me is quite okay. We have toothbrush, brush, we have many different kinds of shampoos, we have so many kinds of... we have insurance, medicine, everything. But unfortunately, there's not much you can do to your mind, unfortunately. Actually, the mind is the main source of our happiness and suffering, but then there's no structure and process, or much you cannot do, there's not much. So, why we meditate, why we take spiritual path? In common sense, we have to take care of ourselves, isn't it? Since. And then, when you say, I take care of, it doesn't... it's not only we are talking about our physical world, we also have to take care of our mind.
And when you practice Dharma, actually, in very simple words, it's just you are
taking care of your mind, that's it, with the proper process.
And so, if you think, why I should practice Dharma?
And the question is, well, you have mind, unfortunately or fortunately, whether you like it or not, and you cannot just let it be wild, because it's not healthy. And as, like, you take care of your body, you go to gym, whatever whatever you do in daily life, you have to take care of your mind. It's simple. And to do that, you have to meditate, you have to follow the discipline, everything to take care of our mind. It's not easy. If taking care of body is easy, then taking care of mind is even much, much more difficult, then taking care of mind is much, much more difficult.
And also, working now, the thing is that,

if you want to take care of your mind, it is very important to know that how mind works.
Of course, we cannot know everything, but there's certain kind of rules how mind works, right? Maybe different beings have different mindset, we work differently, but as a human being, we have more or less the same human pattern, so to speak. And of course, this, our reactions are influenced by our background, culture, many things, but somehow our mind reacts more or less the same way. Yeah? It's not completely different.
Maybe...
So...
Okay, I think I will stop here today, and I will continue tomorrow.
Is it?
We have one and a half hour, yeah?
And only one and a half, one and fifteen minutes are gone. Okay. So I will talk about mind a little bit tomorrow. And maybe if you have any questions, you can discuss. So today what I was trying to say was that.
it's important to understand and recognize our own potential,
and then knowing what is the process to develop that potential. And once you don't know that, life becomes very confusing. And once you know that, life becomes much, much more clear and easier. So I'm trying to say a very common way how Dharma can be the, how to say,
the methods to understand or to recognize that potential and develop that potential.
Yeah?
Yeah, so please, if you have any questions, we can discuss for a few minutes and then...

Yes?
What are the causes of suffering and the causes of happiness?
Maybe I will give you very short.
You have to study like this Four Noble Truths, probably maybe you have heard it, yeah? And it mentioned quite clearly, so Four Noble Truths are Truth of Suffering, and Truth of Origin, which means truth of that cause of the suffering. And then we call Truth of Path, which is the cause of happiness. And the fourth one is called Truth of Cessation, which means the Buddhahood or enlightenment or happiness. So you have this very so-called Four Noble Truth, which is the first teachings of Buddha, as well as the very basic foundation of Buddhism. So you have suffering, cause of suffering, and happiness and cause of happiness. And there are many, many books you can read. But now, I will tell you very in short way.
There was once a person, and he asked Buddha,
I think Dharmapada, Buddha, I really want to be happy. Can you just give me a short, pith instruction. And Buddha said, sure. Buddha never said, I don't know. So he said something.
See, you, I, you say, I want to be happy.
So quite simple. Just take out the I. That's called ego. That's why we're talking about this.
cognitive obscuration.
You just take out the I. Put it away. And then second, want. It's called desire. Obscuration of cognitive. So you just take out the cognitive obscuration, and the emotional obscuration, and whatever that is happiness.
Yeah?

So of course we can talk it philosophically, but when you say,
I want to be happy, don't think too much about I, I want. Yeah? Just let go I and want, and happiness will come by itself. And when you push too much, I want to be happy, the more you press, the happiness will go more further.
Unfortunately, many times that we do.
You want the happiness, but you push too much this I and want.
And it is like, you know, when you wanted to hold the sand in your hand,
you should be loosed. More you try to hold it strongly, more it goes away.
So that's why exactly what I was trying to say is that we are not going at the right way,
although what we want and Buddha want is exactly the same thing. Unfortunately. We are very confused, what is happiness and what is cause of happiness. And many things, many times we think that actually the suffering is happiness. According to Buddhism, if you study the Four Noble Truths, we have three kinds of suffering. Suffering of suffering, which means, oh, I have a headache, or a little problem that we know. And second thing is what we call the suffering of change. We really believe that it's a happiness.
And then the third is called the suffering of all posabilities, much, much subtler.
That means the moment you are born, you are almost ingrained with the hope and fear. You are never, never free from that. And this is exactly like the engines that drive us in our life. But the problem is that hope and fear is energy, but sometimes it becomes too much. It becomes a problem. As long as you know how to use them, it works as energy. But when it overflows, then it becomes a problem. And many times, we use it too much. It's like electricity, yeah? When the electricity is a certain kind of level, we can use them. But when it's too much, then the problem explodes. Many, many mental problems such as anxiety, depression are exactly the result of that.
Over, how to say, explosion of hope and fear, and our mind cannot take it.
It's like when you use the voltage here, too high and then it explodes, something like that. So, I would say that more ego, I, and more one disturbing emotion, there will be more disturbances. Internally, actionally, resultly. But more you have less ego, I, less want, I think it will bring more happiness, temporarily and ultimately.
About your glass of water?
Yes. If it depends who looks at it, so there is no objective reality? It's just an illusion. So it's also an illusion that you sit here and how can I decide what kind, I mean, why is it important to take good actions or bad actions if nothing is real? Yeah, yeah. I was expecting this as question. Even I didn't start the emptiness aspect.
See.

Now, it's like this.

Emptiness.

Illusion is not reality, but it is an illusion.
Yeah. It's like this. Let's say if you are a physics or chemist teacher, and then you look at this, glass of water, and theoretically, you know exactly what it is. But it doesn't really mean that the physicist will never drink water. He will definitely use it as water. So consciously, you can theoretically, you can explain what is this. But it doesn't mean that water will disappear. It will be there as long as you change your subconscious mind.
So now, when we say if everything is illusions, we are not talking about that they don't exist.
We are just saying that they are not the reality that we perceive is not what it is. It is what it appears to us. But we are not talking about it doesn't exist. But is there something? Yes.
That's why emptiness is not an emptiness.

When you study the Heart Sutra, we talk a lot about that.
Form is emptiness. That's why Buddha actually said that form is emptiness. He said that. But then, immediately he knew that when he said that, that means it's non-existing. And then he said emptiness is a form.
I don't know if that makes any sense.
If you read the Heart Sutra, there's a line saying form is emptiness, emptiness is a form. So emptiness does not really mean non-existing. It means that things are not how it appears to us.
But the biggest problem is that now we are talking in the duality states here.
Duality states. And this is the biggest challenge because for example, we cannot really talk about what is emptiness, but we can talk what is not emptiness. Yeah? Unfortunately, this is the only way.
So I cannot, if you ask me, what is that something?
I really don't know. But only I can tell you is, what it is we think it's not. Does it make sense? So that's why if you study a Nāgārjuna, Madhyamika's they say, OK, now I'm going to teach emptiness, but actually they don't talk about emptiness. They just talk about truly established. What is not emptiness. The whole text is about what is not emptiness.
This is the important part. Maybe I will say a little bit, a few things.

It's like this.

I am.

Because now, well in Buddhism we call that when you try to communicate,
there's three kind of communication systems.
Mind communication system, where they don't use any kind of signs and the words.
Unfortunately, we cannot do that because it's a very high level communication system. And second thing is, they call it the symbolic communication system. That means this is exactly all these colors, shapes, and you know. This is sometimes when you practice Vajrayana, we use that communication system, symbolic communication. They think that verbal communication is too confusing. And visual communication system is much, much better than the verbal communication system. That's why in Vajrayana you have these melodies, colors, tunes, incense, brocades.
But generally now we have to communicate through
verbal communication system is our thing, our level. The problem is that the moment, the design of the intention of verbal communication is give you some kind of duality. Because when I say some words, it has to give you some thought. Otherwise it's even not a word. What's the point of that? So that means when I say this is emptiness, actually what I'm saying is this is not emptiness.
So sometimes because of that, more you try to explain emptiness, it becomes more obscure.

So what we do?
We try to talk what is not emptiness.
For example, it's like this.
Let's say I'm born as a colored blind.
This is not completely colored blind, but I only see a black and white.
And I don't know that. And you know what is color. So now you're trying to explain to me what is blue.
And of course, you can say that this is, you know, blue is like this.
Then I will look at, yeah, of course I know what is blue. But what I understand is whether it is black or white. You can explain and point at me so many blues, but it really doesn't matter. What I will understand is whether it's black or not, because I believe that there's only two colors in this world. My mind cannot see any other than that. This is exactly when we talk about emptiness, so we always have this existing, non-existing. Is, is not. There's no third thing. Now, this person has one way to convince me. Okay, so there's no way that he can show me what is blue. Yeah, it's impossible. But, he can try, one way is, let's say, he will, he can point me and this say, do you see this? Yeah, this is not blue. Okay. Then maybe he can point me something, you see that? Yes, that is not blue. So he will say this, and I don't know what is exactly blue, but I will understand that eventually what I experience is not blue. There must be something else.
So exactly, this is when we talk about this natural state of mind,
natural state of phenomena, we call the beyond conceptual mind. It's very difficult to put in words, but we talk a lot, because it's not completely helpless. So what we say is, what you think emptiness is not emptiness. And that is not emptiness. So what's the point here? It means it's like this. So I don't know what is the blue, but the moment I realize that black is not blue, I'm going one step forward, to understanding the blue. And when I understand that black is not blue, then I'm going one step forward the blue. And this is exactly what we're doing when we're studying Madhyamika texts.
And it's like this.
When you want to go someplace and there's so many different sideways, yeah? And let's say that you don't know how to point exactly the way, but you can cross all these sideways, you know? This is not way. This is not way. So each time you reach and understand the way you should go, you're going one step forward the reality. Unfortunately, this is the only we can do in our communication system. And this is exactly what we do.
Yeah?
I think there are almost so many factors that we have quite motivated them. But can you, or it's very personal, how do you lose our track? When you become asleep of our emotions or of our way of thinking, how do you lose our track during our way to practice the Dharma?
When you practice Dharma, I usually say this.
There are three things that you have to have. Knowledge, structure, and continuity.
So, of course, I'm not trying to say that you have to study every text now.
You just have to know a little bit, you know, what you are doing, basic things, whatever you are doing, so you have to have some knowledge about it. Number two is that sometimes we have knowledge, especially in the West, I think, knowledge does not come as a whole package.
You have these small teachings here, small teachings there
and you really don't know how to put it together. That's a big problem. Because, I mean, if you study in the monastery, you study in the Tibetan kind of culture, everything, then somehow you almost grow up in this process, yeah? So you have these ideas, more or less. But in the West, because it's very different culture, different things. So, small, small things. It's like you have so many books, and then you really don't know which shelf you should put it in and you get very confused, yeah.
So, you have knowledge.
It's like this. Knowledge comes as in the small pieces of puzzles, right?
So if you just look at the one pieces of puzzle, and
trying to figure out what it is, it's very difficult. Because you don't see the whole picture. So what do you do? You try to put all the puzzles together and go a little far and see what is your full picture. It takes time. It's like playing a puzzle game. Practicing Dharma is. It takes time. It's not easy. But, it is like that. So each time you get teaching, you're getting one new piece of puzzles. That's why you need a guru and teacher telling you directly this goes here, this goes there. Of course you can figure out by yourself, but it takes a long time.
So when you don't see the whole picture, as in whole system, and you just have
small bits and bits there, although you have lots of information, but it doesn't really make much difference. That's one problem. Knowledge. Number two. So how do you help this system? Structure. Many times we have some knowledge, but we don't know how to put that knowledge into the structure. And of course structure you have, in the text it's mentioned you do ngöndro, this and that and everything. Many, many traditional structures, that is sutra, mantra, together. But based on that structure, you have to make your own really proper structure. Take that structure as a general model, but of course you can't do all of this because of many reasons. It's not relevant for you. You don't have that much time. Now the second thing is, you take this model as an example and you make some structure. Now many times what happens is that people, whether don't know, have knowledge, or they have some knowledge, but don't know how to make the knowledge into the structure. Or you just follow the some structure which is not relevant for you, and it becomes too much. Or you just give up thinking, Tibetan things is not for me. You never start anything.
So you have to see that,
take it this general, and you have to make really practical structures. Okay, I took refuge yesterday, so what I can do from today, you know, as a Buddhist. And when you take refuge, they give you quite a good structures, what you should and what you should not do. Maybe you cannot follow all of them, but you can make something definitely you can always do. You cannot take excuses, oh it's so hard or so difficult, I cannot do. So let's say I will do this, I don't know, five minutes meditation, or I will remember three tables once a day, or I will at least reduce my anger from, you know, two levels, something, something like that. Normally we don't do that, and it becomes that just theoretical. Sometimes we become a little bit too comfortable, oh I don't like this, oh I don't like that, or you know, for example, oh I like this meditation, oh I don't like that meditation. But that's also, I used to say that Practicing Dharma is not like going to buffet, unfortunately. It's like going to hospital.
Yes, you have some choices, this doctor I trust, no,
but actually you have to go through the process if you really want to heal. And Khen le Rinpoche said in his book, I really like that, he says, if you think that doing 100,000 prostations is not for me, you are the perfect vessel to do 200,000 prostations. Because you don't have that merit to understand the value of that. It's not because it's not for you. So you have to have some, create some condition for that. Instead of, oh it's not for me, I'll choose the easy one. There is no easy one.
So sometimes we become too choosy when we start Dharma. That's a big problem.
And unfortunately we really don't know what we really want. Maybe it looks this way, tomorrow we like this, and the day after tomorrow it changes. And so our path becomes kind of like, when you want to cut the tree, you should hit the same place. Then it makes sense. Otherwise it really doesn't matter how much you hit, like here, then the whole day the tree will never fall down. It happens many times like that. Oh, Shamatha is so good. Oh, no, no, I don't like that. Maybe Vajrasattva is better than that. Then you do one week. Oh, no, no, no. It's too much. And then of course in the West you are kind of grown up with choosing options. I mean it's very good. But sometimes in Dharma unfortunately it doesn't really work that way. So the structure is important. And many times whether you become too easy, you never start, or you become a thing, oh, it's too difficult and you never start. But there is always a middle way you can do something. It's not like that. Of course the idea of meditation is fun, but when you do meditation it's not really fun, yeah?
Now the third one is very, very important.
Because practicing Dharma is like this, yeah? It goes like this, interesting, fun, sitting under the tree, meditating, calm of mind, relaxing, music, wow, you know? But when you do, wake up at three o'clock in the morning and till the fourth session, it's not fun.
So you have to have these preparations that I will dedicate, yeah?
I'm not doing this for fun. I'm doing this something for much, much bigger than that. You have to have that preparation, courage, and the passion. Because many times you start and it goes up, yeah? Difficult path. And it goes down and then it goes smooth. This path is like that. And many times we give up in this. Up one. Whether it doesn't make sense. So what I'm trying to say is that don't think too much. Just keep doing it. Continuity is important. Yeah? First you do some experiments, which one you like, but then don't change too much. Otherwise you keep changing, changing, like hitting to all the places. And some, of course you can check here where is proper way to hit. Maybe this one is proper. Some tests. And then once you got something, then you really have to hit on that. Then Again, sometimes we become too greedy when you practice Dharma. Oh, you know. Maybe you have seen some documentary, maybe you have some red books. Oh, so cool. So I will practice for one week and then I will become this and that. And then your practice getting worse and worse day by day. So not being too soon to judge. Evaluate your practice. And have to wait. Just keep doing it. Sometimes you like it, sometimes you don't like it, but just keep doing it. Because when you practice, it's like creating a pattern inside of you, yeah? That's what we call gom. Creating a pattern. So it takes time.
It's like I would say that usually it's like investing in the hydropower,
not like doing the fast food business. You have to wait 10, 15 years to see the result.
So continuity is very important.
I think when you have these three things, certain knowledge, structure, practical structure, relevant structure for you, and the continuity, then be patient. Then once you get confident, then it's not that difficult. And it's not always difficult. For example, when you practice shamatha at the beginning it seems like wow, it's impossible to practice. I have so much thought, yeah? And then if you give up that level, then you always stay there. Then you do, do, do. Then after a few times it kind of comes down. Then you feel like, well, there's so many thoughts, but actually it's not that bad. And then you get, it's like how to drive, yeah? There's not just knowing and not knowing. It's a long process, you know? You do it, you do it, you do it. And then in certain time you get, oh now I know, so I know how to control because I did just practice, yeah? And you also have the same feelings when you practice Dharma in general, especially when you meditate.
And of course, if you have good
inspirational peoples around you, it will be very plus point, you know? If you don't, then sometimes it will... But also the very important thing is that once now many of us, emotional practitioners, okay, we come to Dharma emotionally. We practice Dharma emotionally. We have compassion emotionally, not wisdom. Okay? And it's good to start, but it's not very stable. It's very up and down. You have to have a wisdom. So it comes later. Once you start change this emotional to the wisdom, then things become much, much more settled. You know, like when you're a teenager, when you're young, not knowing what to do here and there, and then what do I want? You're a little bit confused. And once you get settled, get married, have one children, then you're kind of, okay, so whether I like it or not, I have to go through this. You don't have much choice you know, you feel like grounded. It's same in Dharma. Until getting married, our Dharma practice is a little bit emotionally reacted. Excitement, disappointment, up and down. Slowly, slowly this emotional will transform into a little bit of wisdom. Then you will be grounded and then much, much more stable. And it doesn't matter what kind of conditions are there. Confidence will arise from there.
Okay, so I will stop here.
Maybe we'll just meditate for, I don't know, 10 minutes. Just do whatever you want to do, yeah?
There is some prayer for meditation, but maybe today we won't do that.

It's okay, maybe we'll do tomorrow.
We have more time.
I will put it here, I think better.

so we'll do this dedication of merit.

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künsang dorjé chang chen men ché né
drinchen tsawai lama yenché kyi drowai dön du mönlam gang tapa dedak thamché deng dir drupar shok May all the aspirations for the benefit of beings from Samantabhadra and great Vajradhara down until our kind root guru, be accomplished this very day.
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sönam diyi thamché sikpa nyi thopné nyepai dranam phamjé né kyega nachi balap trukpa yi sipai tsolé drowa drölwar shok By this merit, may I attain omniscience. Having defeated the enemy, misdeeds, may I free all beings from the ocean of existence, with it's stormy waves of birth, old age, sickness and death.
jangchup semchok rinpoché
ma kyepa nam kyé gyurchik kyepa nyampa mepa yang gongné gongdu phelwar shok May the supreme and precious mind of enlightenment, awaken in those where it has not yet arisen. Where it has arisen, may it never decrease, but continue to flourish forevermore. Okay, so we'll do. So, our tradition, when you start the teachings or puja, and teacher will sit first and then you sit after that. But when you stand up, you can stand up before the teacher. You don't have to wait for me.
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So the problem is that our direct perception is quite innocent. It doesn't make much story. But our conceptual mind is very difficult because it makes a lot of stories and he creates the pattern. That's the biggest problem.
Which means that after my eye consciousness sees some phenomena,
then immediately my mental consciousness will recognize this, oh, this is water. There's no doubt at all that this is water. Then immediately after, when I see water, I will make two kind, three kind of judgment. Like, dislike and neutral. So whether you like or whether you dislike or whether you neutral, and this will create so called the three kinds of pattern in our mind.
Attachment, anger and ignorant.

So when we talk about this, our negative aspects of mind, we talk about lots of
different kind of disturbing emotions, but it always comes down to this three kind. Attachment, aversion and ignorant. So you can always put in these three kind of cases, whatever kind of negative emotions. So that means each time you have conceptual mind, it is kind of contributing your negative patterns. And this is what we call the emotional... So when I believe that this is water, there, and this is what we call the cognitive obscurations, because it's a duality. And this is completely based on duality. And of course, Am I seeing, am I judging the water according to what it is? Or am I judging the water according to what it appears to me? Now when I say, oh, it's water, I think that this is the reality of this phenomena, but actually it's not. This is my judgment of my perception. So for example, let's say if there's a fish sitting here, and when the fish sees that, he won't see it's water, or maybe the sun. So from the Buddhist point of view, what you see is not what it is, because who you are. Does it make sense? So we believe that if there's a fish, if there's a dog, if there's a, I don't know, god, if you look at this glass of water, we won't see the same thing. We will see completely different things, the same object. So it's not because there's different objects, it's just because we have different receptors. We are different. So we have different habitual patterns, and the ability to understand what object it is. And because of that, in Buddhism, if you change your mind, everything can be changed.
That's why you meditate.

You don't have to go and kill all the enemies.
If you meditate, then all the enemies can be eliminated without killing them.
And you don't have to, how to say?

So through that logic or reason, how everything depends on the persons who perceived it.
Because of that, if you meditate and if you change, and if you reduce the negative aspects of your mind, then everything can be a positive. We can react positively.
So cognitive obscuration will come first, thinking that, oh, this is water.
Of course, we can talk what is this at many different levels. For example, let's say, if you ask me, what is this, oh, it's water, and we drink it, and we make food, and we wash clothes. This is one way to understand it. But if you look at, even from the little bit, our own kind of understanding of what is this, well, it's not really exactly what it appears to our, you can explain theoretically. It's like combinations of oxygens and hydrogens, and actually, there's more space than there's more, it seems. For example, if you say, this is table, and then it seems like very solid. But then if you logically explain it, it says there's more space than the solid. These kind of things, we can understand it. So even, it's so obvious that things are not, really it is not what it appears to us. So there are so many causes, conditions, how we judge what it is and what it is not. So what I'm trying to say was that everything comes down to the mind. It's not really what it is, it's about who is looking at that phenomena and making judgment. So because of that, it is possible that if you change your mind, if you reduce your negative aspects of mind, and then if you increase the quality aspects of your mind, since they are opposite and two opposite things don't stay together.
So for example, if you have compassion to one person, it's difficult to get angry to
this person because the compassion and anger doesn't stay same. Similarly, if you are attached to something, it's difficult to get aggression because our mind, fortunately, doesn't work two opposite things at the same. So when you create this positive pattern of mind in yourself, negative pattern of mind automatically decreases.
So if you understand a little bit of that logic, and then all these Vajrayana aspects
of visualizing and all these make a little bit sense. Otherwise, it might seem like just we are playing a mental game.
So now,

when we say I want to be happy, I'm suffering, we point out, you know, me.
And many times, we don't really think too much about me or I, or sometimes we think too much about me and I. And when you don't think at all, or when you think too much then our mind becomes a little bit imbalance.
And generally speaking, it's very obvious that we have this physical, so-called I, me,
you know, physical happiness, physical suffering, and then we have this mental suffering, mental happiness, I and me.
And since you point, this is me, and it's important to take care, right?
And we do take care of our physical world, physical me is quite okay. We have toothbrush, brush, we have many different kinds of shampoos, we have so many kinds of... we have insurance, medicine, everything. But unfortunately, there's not much you can do to your mind, unfortunately. Actually, the mind is the main source of our happiness and suffering, but then there's no structure and process, or much you cannot do, there's not much. So, why we meditate, why we take spiritual path? In common sense, we have to take care of ourselves, isn't it? Since. And then, when you say, I take care of, it doesn't... it's not only we are talking about our physical world, we also have to take care of our mind.
And when you practice Dharma, actually, in very simple words, it's just you are
taking care of your mind, that's it, with the proper process.
And so, if you think, why I should practice Dharma?
And the question is, well, you have mind, unfortunately or fortunately, whether you like it or not, and you cannot just let it be wild, because it's not healthy. And as, like, you take care of your body, you go to gym, whatever whatever you do in daily life, you have to take care of your mind. It's simple. And to do that, you have to meditate, you have to follow the discipline, everything to take care of our mind. It's not easy. If taking care of body is easy, then taking care of mind is even much, much more difficult, then taking care of mind is much, much more difficult.
And also, working now, the thing is that,

if you want to take care of your mind, it is very important to know that how mind works.
Of course, we cannot know everything, but there's certain kind of rules how mind works, right? Maybe different beings have different mindset, we work differently, but as a human being, we have more or less the same human pattern, so to speak. And of course, this, our reactions are influenced by our background, culture, many things, but somehow our mind reacts more or less the same way. Yeah? It's not completely different.
Maybe...
So...
Okay, I think I will stop here today, and I will continue tomorrow.
Is it?
We have one and a half hour, yeah?
And only one and a half, one and fifteen minutes are gone. Okay. So I will talk about mind a little bit tomorrow. And maybe if you have any questions, you can discuss. So today what I was trying to say was that.
it's important to understand and recognize our own potential,
and then knowing what is the process to develop that potential. And once you don't know that, life becomes very confusing. And once you know that, life becomes much, much more clear and easier. So I'm trying to say a very common way how Dharma can be the, how to say,
the methods to understand or to recognize that potential and develop that potential.
Yeah?
Yeah, so please, if you have any questions, we can discuss for a few minutes and then...

Yes?
What are the causes of suffering and the causes of happiness?
Maybe I will give you very short.
You have to study like this Four Noble Truths, probably maybe you have heard it, yeah? And it mentioned quite clearly, so Four Noble Truths are Truth of Suffering, and Truth of Origin, which means truth of that cause of the suffering. And then we call Truth of Path, which is the cause of happiness. And the fourth one is called Truth of Cessation, which means the Buddhahood or enlightenment or happiness. So you have this very so-called Four Noble Truth, which is the first teachings of Buddha, as well as the very basic foundation of Buddhism. So you have suffering, cause of suffering, and happiness and cause of happiness. And there are many, many books you can read. But now, I will tell you very in short way.
There was once a person, and he asked Buddha,
I think Dharmapada, Buddha, I really want to be happy. Can you just give me a short, pith instruction. And Buddha said, sure. Buddha never said, I don't know. So he said something.
See, you, I, you say, I want to be happy.
So quite simple. Just take out the I. That's called ego. That's why we're talking about this.
cognitive obscuration.
You just take out the I. Put it away. And then second, want. It's called desire. Obscuration of cognitive. So you just take out the cognitive obscuration, and the emotional obscuration, and whatever that is happiness.
Yeah?

So of course we can talk it philosophically, but when you say,
I want to be happy, don't think too much about I, I want. Yeah? Just let go I and want, and happiness will come by itself. And when you push too much, I want to be happy, the more you press, the happiness will go more further.
Unfortunately, many times that we do.
You want the happiness, but you push too much this I and want.
And it is like, you know, when you wanted to hold the sand in your hand,
you should be loosed. More you try to hold it strongly, more it goes away.
So that's why exactly what I was trying to say is that we are not going at the right way,
although what we want and Buddha want is exactly the same thing. Unfortunately. We are very confused, what is happiness and what is cause of happiness. And many things, many times we think that actually the suffering is happiness. According to Buddhism, if you study the Four Noble Truths, we have three kinds of suffering. Suffering of suffering, which means, oh, I have a headache, or a little problem that we know. And second thing is what we call the suffering of change. We really believe that it's a happiness.
And then the third is called the suffering of all posabilities, much, much subtler.
That means the moment you are born, you are almost ingrained with the hope and fear. You are never, never free from that. And this is exactly like the engines that drive us in our life. But the problem is that hope and fear is energy, but sometimes it becomes too much. It becomes a problem. As long as you know how to use them, it works as energy. But when it overflows, then it becomes a problem. And many times, we use it too much. It's like electricity, yeah? When the electricity is a certain kind of level, we can use them. But when it's too much, then the problem explodes. Many, many mental problems such as anxiety, depression are exactly the result of that.
Over, how to say, explosion of hope and fear, and our mind cannot take it.
It's like when you use the voltage here, too high and then it explodes, something like that. So, I would say that more ego, I, and more one disturbing emotion, there will be more disturbances. Internally, actionally, resultly. But more you have less ego, I, less want, I think it will bring more happiness, temporarily and ultimately.
About your glass of water?
Yes. If it depends who looks at it, so there is no objective reality? It's just an illusion. So it's also an illusion that you sit here and how can I decide what kind, I mean, why is it important to take good actions or bad actions if nothing is real? Yeah, yeah. I was expecting this as question. Even I didn't start the emptiness aspect.
See.

Now, it's like this.

Emptiness.

Illusion is not reality, but it is an illusion.
Yeah. It's like this. Let's say if you are a physics or chemist teacher, and then you look at this, glass of water, and theoretically, you know exactly what it is. But it doesn't really mean that the physicist will never drink water. He will definitely use it as water. So consciously, you can theoretically, you can explain what is this. But it doesn't mean that water will disappear. It will be there as long as you change your subconscious mind.
So now, when we say if everything is illusions, we are not talking about that they don't exist.
We are just saying that they are not the reality that we perceive is not what it is. It is what it appears to us. But we are not talking about it doesn't exist. But is there something? Yes.
That's why emptiness is not an emptiness.

When you study the Heart Sutra, we talk a lot about that.
Form is emptiness. That's why Buddha actually said that form is emptiness. He said that. But then, immediately he knew that when he said that, that means it's non-existing. And then he said emptiness is a form.
I don't know if that makes any sense.
If you read the Heart Sutra, there's a line saying form is emptiness, emptiness is a form. So emptiness does not really mean non-existing. It means that things are not how it appears to us.
But the biggest problem is that now we are talking in the duality states here.
Duality states. And this is the biggest challenge because for example, we cannot really talk about what is emptiness, but we can talk what is not emptiness. Yeah? Unfortunately, this is the only way.
So I cannot, if you ask me, what is that something?
I really don't know. But only I can tell you is, what it is we think it's not. Does it make sense? So that's why if you study a Nāgārjuna, Madhyamika's they say, OK, now I'm going to teach emptiness, but actually they don't talk about emptiness. They just talk about truly established. What is not emptiness. The whole text is about what is not emptiness.
This is the important part. Maybe I will say a little bit, a few things.

It's like this.

I am.

Because now, well in Buddhism we call that when you try to communicate,
there's three kind of communication systems.
Mind communication system, where they don't use any kind of signs and the words.
Unfortunately, we cannot do that because it's a very high level communication system. And second thing is, they call it the symbolic communication system. That means this is exactly all these colors, shapes, and you know. This is sometimes when you practice Vajrayana, we use that communication system, symbolic communication. They think that verbal communication is too confusing. And visual communication system is much, much better than the verbal communication system. That's why in Vajrayana you have these melodies, colors, tunes, incense, brocades.
But generally now we have to communicate through
verbal communication system is our thing, our level. The problem is that the moment, the design of the intention of verbal communication is give you some kind of duality. Because when I say some words, it has to give you some thought. Otherwise it's even not a word. What's the point of that? So that means when I say this is emptiness, actually what I'm saying is this is not emptiness.
So sometimes because of that, more you try to explain emptiness, it becomes more obscure.

So what we do?
We try to talk what is not emptiness.
For example, it's like this.
Let's say I'm born as a colored blind.
This is not completely colored blind, but I only see a black and white.
And I don't know that. And you know what is color. So now you're trying to explain to me what is blue.
And of course, you can say that this is, you know, blue is like this.
Then I will look at, yeah, of course I know what is blue. But what I understand is whether it is black or white. You can explain and point at me so many blues, but it really doesn't matter. What I will understand is whether it's black or not, because I believe that there's only two colors in this world. My mind cannot see any other than that. This is exactly when we talk about emptiness, so we always have this existing, non-existing. Is, is not. There's no third thing. Now, this person has one way to convince me. Okay, so there's no way that he can show me what is blue. Yeah, it's impossible. But, he can try, one way is, let's say, he will, he can point me and this say, do you see this? Yeah, this is not blue. Okay. Then maybe he can point me something, you see that? Yes, that is not blue. So he will say this, and I don't know what is exactly blue, but I will understand that eventually what I experience is not blue. There must be something else.
So exactly, this is when we talk about this natural state of mind,
natural state of phenomena, we call the beyond conceptual mind. It's very difficult to put in words, but we talk a lot, because it's not completely helpless. So what we say is, what you think emptiness is not emptiness. And that is not emptiness. So what's the point here? It means it's like this. So I don't know what is the blue, but the moment I realize that black is not blue, I'm going one step forward, to understanding the blue. And when I understand that black is not blue, then I'm going one step forward the blue. And this is exactly what we're doing when we're studying Madhyamika texts.
And it's like this.
When you want to go someplace and there's so many different sideways, yeah? And let's say that you don't know how to point exactly the way, but you can cross all these sideways, you know? This is not way. This is not way. So each time you reach and understand the way you should go, you're going one step forward the reality. Unfortunately, this is the only we can do in our communication system. And this is exactly what we do.
Yeah?
I think there are almost so many factors that we have quite motivated them. But can you, or it's very personal, how do you lose our track? When you become asleep of our emotions or of our way of thinking, how do you lose our track during our way to practice the Dharma?
When you practice Dharma, I usually say this.
There are three things that you have to have. Knowledge, structure, and continuity.
So, of course, I'm not trying to say that you have to study every text now.
You just have to know a little bit, you know, what you are doing, basic things, whatever you are doing, so you have to have some knowledge about it. Number two is that sometimes we have knowledge, especially in the West, I think, knowledge does not come as a whole package.
You have these small teachings here, small teachings there
and you really don't know how to put it together. That's a big problem. Because, I mean, if you study in the monastery, you study in the Tibetan kind of culture, everything, then somehow you almost grow up in this process, yeah? So you have these ideas, more or less. But in the West, because it's very different culture, different things. So, small, small things. It's like you have so many books, and then you really don't know which shelf you should put it in and you get very confused, yeah.
So, you have knowledge.
It's like this. Knowledge comes as in the small pieces of puzzles, right?
So if you just look at the one pieces of puzzle, and
trying to figure out what it is, it's very difficult. Because you don't see the whole picture. So what do you do? You try to put all the puzzles together and go a little far and see what is your full picture. It takes time. It's like playing a puzzle game. Practicing Dharma is. It takes time. It's not easy. But, it is like that. So each time you get teaching, you're getting one new piece of puzzles. That's why you need a guru and teacher telling you directly this goes here, this goes there. Of course you can figure out by yourself, but it takes a long time.
So when you don't see the whole picture, as in whole system, and you just have
small bits and bits there, although you have lots of information, but it doesn't really make much difference. That's one problem. Knowledge. Number two. So how do you help this system? Structure. Many times we have some knowledge, but we don't know how to put that knowledge into the structure. And of course structure you have, in the text it's mentioned you do ngöndro, this and that and everything. Many, many traditional structures, that is sutra, mantra, together. But based on that structure, you have to make your own really proper structure. Take that structure as a general model, but of course you can't do all of this because of many reasons. It's not relevant for you. You don't have that much time. Now the second thing is, you take this model as an example and you make some structure. Now many times what happens is that people, whether don't know, have knowledge, or they have some knowledge, but don't know how to make the knowledge into the structure. Or you just follow the some structure which is not relevant for you, and it becomes too much. Or you just give up thinking, Tibetan things is not for me. You never start anything.
So you have to see that,
take it this general, and you have to make really practical structures. Okay, I took refuge yesterday, so what I can do from today, you know, as a Buddhist. And when you take refuge, they give you quite a good structures, what you should and what you should not do. Maybe you cannot follow all of them, but you can make something definitely you can always do. You cannot take excuses, oh it's so hard or so difficult, I cannot do. So let's say I will do this, I don't know, five minutes meditation, or I will remember three tables once a day, or I will at least reduce my anger from, you know, two levels, something, something like that. Normally we don't do that, and it becomes that just theoretical. Sometimes we become a little bit too comfortable, oh I don't like this, oh I don't like that, or you know, for example, oh I like this meditation, oh I don't like that meditation. But that's also, I used to say that Practicing Dharma is not like going to buffet, unfortunately. It's like going to hospital.
Yes, you have some choices, this doctor I trust, no,
but actually you have to go through the process if you really want to heal. And Khen le Rinpoche said in his book, I really like that, he says, if you think that doing 100,000 prostations is not for me, you are the perfect vessel to do 200,000 prostations. Because you don't have that merit to understand the value of that. It's not because it's not for you. So you have to have some, create some condition for that. Instead of, oh it's not for me, I'll choose the easy one. There is no easy one.
So sometimes we become too choosy when we start Dharma. That's a big problem.
And unfortunately we really don't know what we really want. Maybe it looks this way, tomorrow we like this, and the day after tomorrow it changes. And so our path becomes kind of like, when you want to cut the tree, you should hit the same place. Then it makes sense. Otherwise it really doesn't matter how much you hit, like here, then the whole day the tree will never fall down. It happens many times like that. Oh, Shamatha is so good. Oh, no, no, I don't like that. Maybe Vajrasattva is better than that. Then you do one week. Oh, no, no, no. It's too much. And then of course in the West you are kind of grown up with choosing options. I mean it's very good. But sometimes in Dharma unfortunately it doesn't really work that way. So the structure is important. And many times whether you become too easy, you never start, or you become a thing, oh, it's too difficult and you never start. But there is always a middle way you can do something. It's not like that. Of course the idea of meditation is fun, but when you do meditation it's not really fun, yeah?
Now the third one is very, very important.
Because practicing Dharma is like this, yeah? It goes like this, interesting, fun, sitting under the tree, meditating, calm of mind, relaxing, music, wow, you know? But when you do, wake up at three o'clock in the morning and till the fourth session, it's not fun.
So you have to have these preparations that I will dedicate, yeah?
I'm not doing this for fun. I'm doing this something for much, much bigger than that. You have to have that preparation, courage, and the passion. Because many times you start and it goes up, yeah? Difficult path. And it goes down and then it goes smooth. This path is like that. And many times we give up in this. Up one. Whether it doesn't make sense. So what I'm trying to say is that don't think too much. Just keep doing it. Continuity is important. Yeah? First you do some experiments, which one you like, but then don't change too much. Otherwise you keep changing, changing, like hitting to all the places. And some, of course you can check here where is proper way to hit. Maybe this one is proper. Some tests. And then once you got something, then you really have to hit on that. Then Again, sometimes we become too greedy when you practice Dharma. Oh, you know. Maybe you have seen some documentary, maybe you have some red books. Oh, so cool. So I will practice for one week and then I will become this and that. And then your practice getting worse and worse day by day. So not being too soon to judge. Evaluate your practice. And have to wait. Just keep doing it. Sometimes you like it, sometimes you don't like it, but just keep doing it. Because when you practice, it's like creating a pattern inside of you, yeah? That's what we call gom. Creating a pattern. So it takes time.
It's like I would say that usually it's like investing in the hydropower,
not like doing the fast food business. You have to wait 10, 15 years to see the result.
So continuity is very important.
I think when you have these three things, certain knowledge, structure, practical structure, relevant structure for you, and the continuity, then be patient. Then once you get confident, then it's not that difficult. And it's not always difficult. For example, when you practice shamatha at the beginning it seems like wow, it's impossible to practice. I have so much thought, yeah? And then if you give up that level, then you always stay there. Then you do, do, do. Then after a few times it kind of comes down. Then you feel like, well, there's so many thoughts, but actually it's not that bad. And then you get, it's like how to drive, yeah? There's not just knowing and not knowing. It's a long process, you know? You do it, you do it, you do it. And then in certain time you get, oh now I know, so I know how to control because I did just practice, yeah? And you also have the same feelings when you practice Dharma in general, especially when you meditate.
And of course, if you have good
inspirational peoples around you, it will be very plus point, you know? If you don't, then sometimes it will... But also the very important thing is that once now many of us, emotional practitioners, okay, we come to Dharma emotionally. We practice Dharma emotionally. We have compassion emotionally, not wisdom. Okay? And it's good to start, but it's not very stable. It's very up and down. You have to have a wisdom. So it comes later. Once you start change this emotional to the wisdom, then things become much, much more settled. You know, like when you're a teenager, when you're young, not knowing what to do here and there, and then what do I want? You're a little bit confused. And once you get settled, get married, have one children, then you're kind of, okay, so whether I like it or not, I have to go through this. You don't have much choice you know, you feel like grounded. It's same in Dharma. Until getting married, our Dharma practice is a little bit emotionally reacted. Excitement, disappointment, up and down. Slowly, slowly this emotional will transform into a little bit of wisdom. Then you will be grounded and then much, much more stable. And it doesn't matter what kind of conditions are there. Confidence will arise from there.
Okay, so I will stop here.
Maybe we'll just meditate for, I don't know, 10 minutes. Just do whatever you want to do, yeah?
There is some prayer for meditation, but maybe today we won't do that.

It's okay, maybe we'll do tomorrow.
We have more time.
I will put it here, I think better.

so we'll do this dedication of merit.

Page number 18.

künsang dorjé chang chen men ché né
drinchen tsawai lama yenché kyi drowai dön du mönlam gang tapa dedak thamché deng dir drupar shok May all the aspirations for the benefit of beings from Samantabhadra and great Vajradhara down until our kind root guru, be accomplished this very day.
Next verse.
sönam diyi thamché sikpa nyi thopné nyepai dranam phamjé né kyega nachi balap trukpa yi sipai tsolé drowa drölwar shok By this merit, may I attain omniscience. Having defeated the enemy, misdeeds, may I free all beings from the ocean of existence, with it's stormy waves of birth, old age, sickness and death.
jangchup semchok rinpoché
ma kyepa nam kyé gyurchik kyepa nyampa mepa yang gongné gongdu phelwar shok May the supreme and precious mind of enlightenment, awaken in those where it has not yet arisen. Where it has arisen, may it never decrease, but continue to flourish forevermore. Okay, so we'll do. So, our tradition, when you start the teachings or puja, and teacher will sit first and then you sit after that. But when you stand up, you can stand up before the teacher. You don't have to wait for me.

How Does Buddhism Transform Us? 1b

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  • Gomde Germany-Austria
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Khenpo Karma Gyurmey builds on the principles introduced in the first session, focusing on the significance of self-awareness and mindfulness in transforming habitual patterns. It introduces contemplative techniques to nurture compassion and reduce negative emotional states like anger and attachment. Ethical discipline is emphasized as a foundation for developing mental clarity and aligning with the principles of the Dharma. Through meditation and reflection, participants are encouraged to strengthen their understanding of impermanence and interconnectedness. The session provides actionable steps for integrating these insights into daily life.

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